Parents have a very high position in Islam.
They are forbidden to scold, rebuke and even say "F"... Parents have immense favors on their children. Only one can repay them
The Holy Qur'an has called the kindness of a mother only when she is in her womb "Wahan Ali Wahan" which means trouble upon trouble....
See divine decree..
And We enjoined upon man his parents, his mother, and his mother, and his separation, and his separation in Amen, to be grateful to me and to your parents (Al-Luqman 1:4)
Translation: We admonished man concerning his parents, his mother bore him with sorrow upon sorrow and weaned him in two years, that you should be grateful to me and your parents, (all of you Ko) has to come back to me
🥀 That is why Allah has ordered to treat parents kindly, then it is among the duties for the children.
Allah Ta'ala while commanding his worship has ordered good behavior towards parents which indicates that the most important duty after obeying Allah is obeying parents...
It is the command of Allah Ta'ala
وَقَضَىٰ رَبُّكَ أَلَّا تَعْبُدُوا إِلَّا إِيَّاهُ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ إِحْسَانًا ۚ إِمَّا يَبْلُغَنَّ عِندَكَ الْكِبَرَ أَحَدُهُمَا أَوْ كِلَاهُمَا فَلَا تَقُل لَّهُمَا أُفٍّ وَلَا تَنْهَرْهُمَا وَقُل لَّهُمَا قَوْلًا كَرِيمًا (الاسراء:23(
Translation: And your Lord has clearly commanded that you worship none but Him and be kind to your parents. If one or both of them reach old age in your presence, do not say af even in front of them, nor scold them, but talk to them politely and respectfully.
Consider this verse, how Allah, while ordering his worship, has ordered good behavior towards parents. This verse reveals the highest position of parents, whose disobedience is far away, they are forbidden to even say af... they are ordered to become cursed wax...
Because of the high position and status of the parents, Allah has made it a law to punish those who disobey them in this world so that the children respect the rights of their parents and fear Allah's punishment for violating or neglecting their rights.
Disobedience of children has become a very disturbing problem in today's society.
Today's children are more inclined towards correction less distortion... This distortion causes damage at different times, in different ways. Reaching puberty, persisting in perversity even after marriage, stubbornness, insisting on one's own point of view, sticking to one's ego "is nothing less than a burning fire for parents, the heat of which they cannot bear." Because of their old age, because of the love and mercy given by Allah and because of their weaknesses, they suffer day and night, the children sleep in China after causing pain to their parents...
And the parents scold the children for their disobedience and spend the night changing clothes.
The love and compassion of the parents makes the children their own heads.
It is worth noting that there are two roles in it, one is the father and the other is the mother's role. The father, after passing through the trials and tribulations of the world, considers his children high and low in his old age. This is the result of his natural responsibility and natural love. It happens.. which today's children consider very bad and consider it as a disturbance in their freedom..
The second role is very important to the child more than the mother, no one wants it, but sometimes the mother spoils the child by showing this love too much, supporting the child on the father's scolding, telling the father about the mistake, etc.
It is poison for the child, he becomes disobedient and disobedient after this support and finally he becomes disobedient to his father and mother, becomes a nuisance to the society along with his parents.. and in the presence of God. He also becomes disobedient and guilty and at the same time becomes deserving of divine punishment.
Astaghfir Allah
Sit with your mother whenever you have free time
The time spent with Kem's mother will be the cause of salvation on the Day of Judgment
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